Went to Spice hits town for the first time in a very long time. It was in the bar that used to be Bobby Browns and is now more of a cuba/salsa place. Not that there is a problem with that, but more that we used to have the club part to ourselves until 10:30 or so so you knew everyone was spice. This time it was just in the bar so it was hard ot know who was spice and who wasn't.

I did have a big shock regarding someone that i have never mentioned before. At least i don't think so. That's because it is difficult for me to talk about, but i guess i should. Maybe

Anyway i bumped into this guy. I have seen him around a few times before and we got chatting. He seemed nice enough, and i began to think that maybe my prayers were answered.

Then he made a racist remark. And that was that. A woman passed by looking for the toilet, he went to show her and i legged it.

Yes, i know, but the legging it was more down to the person i have never talked about before. Although once someone makes a racist remark i just can't stay in the same place as them any longer.

Back to begin again about the person. It happen several years ago. I was in oasis and there was this guy that i really liked called Neil. He was so nice and we had so much in common and we talked for hours. Neil was sharing an apartment with several other people, one of whom is my good friend Andy and another was this person.

Anyway, i think i wrote about how Neil came to nothingm but i saw the other person again at a spice disco. He was going around trying to cop off with as many people as possible. I remember going into the Ladies and he followed me in and tried it on. It sounds like nothing to most people, but it really shocked and upset me, and has affected me ever since. I'm not the kind of person that guys come on to, and anyway, following someone ito the Ladies is not a normal thing. I made a complaint, and i understand that person did reply to my complaint but the guy who runs the group said that he didn't want me to read it. I can probably imagine why.

I saw him around for a while, and i did try to explain to my friends at the time, but i don't think anyone ever really understood. And i suppose it does sound like nothing, but when you remember that i have been single for 8 years being followed into a Ladies toilet and have someone impose himself on you is quite threatening.

If this was the movies i would soon have found myself a lovely boyfriend who would show me that not all blokes are quite so forceful. But this is real life.

posted by small 2:33 PM